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Every time we talk about building, we realize that we don’t need all of that.” “We have one closet in the entire house,” says Munro, a program director for a children’s welfare agency. But after five years of putting off the construction project, they realized that living a less stuff-filled life left them more clear-headed and content. The downsize had been dramatic: In their previous house, the bedroom walk-in closet alone was 640 square feet. Ten years ago Janet Munro and her husband purchased an 880-square-foot house on a small lake in Plymouth, Massachusetts, with plans to tear it down and build a bigger house. Those who do manage to shed excess clutter often speak glowingly of the experience. Wordsworth called it ‘esthetic refueling.’ In a busy life, in a busy city, the garden is private and remarkably quiet.” Photo by Celeste Sloman Conspicuous Minimalism “So every day I’m home I spend time in my garden. Standing Out: “I spend 150 nights a year on the road,” says behavioral researcher Paco Underhill, who lives in New York City’s West Village. “An artist is much better off spending time doing the artwork than accumulating more supplies,” she says. To counter this urge, Steketee urges clients to focus on the activity itself-by joining a book club or throwing a dinner party-rather than on the paraphernalia. A cooking enthusiast might jealously guard his stockpile of restaurant-grade pots and pans, even if he only ever uses a few. A book lover may take great pride in the volumes towering in her office and feel that discarding even one means losing a bit of herself.

“A great deal of attachment to objects is about a personal identification,” says Gail Steketee, dean of Boston University’s School of Social Work, who counsels people living with hoarding issues. The desire to broadcast our personalities through our possessions is one reason they can be so hard to toss out. She’s playing up a side of her that’s real, and also showcasing it.” “She didn’t buy a snowboard and just leave it out. He gives the example of a young woman who prominently displays her snowboard in her dorm room, rather than keeping it in the closet.

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As she packed for the move, she pushed herself to ruthlessly purge possessions, following the mantra of Japanese lifestyle guru Marie Kondo, whose best-selling tidying guides urge readers, above all, to shed any belongings that don’t “spark joy.” But once ensconced in her new three-bedroom home, Daniels found herself with an empty attic and a heart full of regret: Why did she get rid of so many beloved books? Why did she toss her late father’s favorite radio? Finally, she shed the city life for a new home in the quaint and quieter coastal town of Marblehead. With a family of five, it gets pretty messy fast, but order is soon restored.” Photo by James HoleĪfter living with two years of nonstop construction noise in her Cambridge, Massachusetts, neighborhood, her nerves were frayed. ”That advice works in some places, including my kitchen.

Just the Kitchen Sink: “We’re often told, ‘Have a place for everything and put everything in its place,’” says British economist Tim Harford, who has decluttered most of the common spaces of his home.